Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Now, let us focus on focus …


I treat myself to the weekly luxury of going online to indulge my never-ending curiosity. In so doing I recently stumbled upon “Focus: The Hidden Driver of Excellence” by Daniel Goleman. Quite impulsively I clicked the “buy” button, much to my own surprise (as I am naturally thrifty). What’s done is done – but I have no regrets. I have fallen in love with this book and now keep revisiting it. Goleman is mesmerizing with a piercing intellect and a conquering feather touch of intimacy.
Daniel Goleman is no stranger to those in the field of education. His revolutionary work on emotional intelligence has made him an ever shining star among both educators and corporate mentors.

 Practically all of us have gone online only to realize, many hours later, that we have little concrete to show for the last few hours of clicking. There is simply no end to our unchecked online wanderings as we pursue one pop-up and one link after the other. This is an exceedingly common phenomenon in the age of prodigious search engines such as ‘Sheikh’ Google, user-contributed data bases like ‘Imam’ Wikipedia, and a proliferation of posts on social networking sites like Facebook and Twitter. Goleman has something very pertinent to say about this: “Life immersed in digital distractions create a near constant cognitive overload. And that overload wears down our self-control.” (p.31)
If we lose focus so easily in our online lives, it would be safe to assume that we easily lose focus in our “real” lives too – failing to differentiate between the things we have to do and the things we merely want to do.
We all know we can’t get to fully know everything but have to be selective about those things we wish to gain an in-depth knowledge of. For the latter we need focus, and Goleman’s book is an invaluable tool for helping us navigate our waking life, turning it into a wakeful one. As the subtitle says: focus is the hidden driver of excellence. If we want to excel at anything, hard work alone won’t pay off. We need focused attention to prevent our mental energy and attention from being dissipated and squandered by fascinating and insidiously compelling stuff that is not pertinent to our query or our quest. Even worse even, by an irresistible inner chatter. Goleman advises us to “think of attention as a mental muscle that we can strengthen by a workout. Memorization works that muscle, as does concentration. The mental analogue of lifting a free weight over and over is noticing when our mind wanders and bringing it back to target.” (p. 168)
This meta-awareness of noticing when our mind wanders makes all the difference. If you want a “six pack brain”, heed Goleman’s advice: “When your mind wanders - and you notice that it has wandered - bring it back to your point of focus and sustain your attention there. And when your mind wanders off again, do the same. And again. And again. And again.” (Ibid)
The book unfolds in seven parts beginning with “The Anatomy of Attention” and ending with “The Big Picture”. The parts that discuss Self-awareness, Reading others, Bigger contexts, Smart practice, and The Well-focused Leader are sandwiched in-between. All the chapters contain invaluable insights but chapter eighteen alone – How Leaders Direct Attention - would make the book worth reading.
Goleman often goes philosophical, drawing on ecological concerns, anecdotes of visionaries, and his broad personal experience with many respect-inducing minds. All of this makes his work even more readable and insightful. My word of caution to you would be not to take it as just another self-help book printed on recycled paper. Because it is not. It stands off from that commercial line.
“Focus: The Hidden Driver of Excellence” by Daniel Goleman is both a mind- and life-changing work. I dare you to read, and be changed by, it.

Goleman, D. (2013). FOCUS: The Hidden Driver of Excellence. London: Bloomsbury Publishing PLC.

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Sunday, November 2, 2014

Measure them even if you throw away




I am not yet able to sort out whether it is a fact or not that every good chef has got his own thump rules. He uses his own gut feeling for proportionate measurement and timing which is indescribable.


 
It is  a recent realization to me that  there is a measurement in every creation. Everything that god created keep a kind of symmetry in form, acceleration in movement, proportion in its composition, balance in growth, and making. I think we too need to practice it in every efforts. You may wonder what I am talking. Yes I am talking about our time we spend and things we use to make anything. We know how much and how many of most of the things we use as such or the things we use to make something new. But when somebody asks, we just can't seem to give him a correct measurement of time and stuff used.


Lately, I made a cake and as it happened to be one, I dared to present it to a friend. He  bombarded me with a lot of questions for which I don’t have any answer. I am afraid I must have been mistaken that I don’t want to share the recipe. But that was not the case. I simple don’t know for I didn’t think about it before. I wanted to do something about it and I went for a some measuring cups and spoons. Yes the ones you see in the pictures. To my surprise, one of my friends smelled what I have got in my shopping list before I could put it down for next shopping. Otherwise how he could have thought of gifting a set to me then?